(And Why I Don’t Follow Them)
When I first got on the internet, it was mostly dudes and nerds at that time. Women were a scarce commodity. Nowadays, women on the internet, and specifically on social media, are everywhere. They are literally a dime a dozen.
Look on instagram, and what do you see? “Models” showcasing their “assets” with some flavor of the day quote. (You too can have it all, if you just believe in yourself.) Women in different yoga poses showing off their favorite attire.
Women flexing their muscles, showing off their abs. (You’ve come a long way baby.) Of course, let’s not forget the never-ending stream of selfies and duck face pictures ad nauseum. Women taking pictures with their food, women taking pictures with their “BFF’s.” Women sticking out their tongues and giving the world the finger. Women doing shots of booze and chugging down copious amounts of alcohol at whatever latest party that they are attending. Women taking pictures with their dogs or cats (aka their “children.”)
What are all of these pictures, what are all of these poses saying?
One thing and one thing only:
“Look At Me.” “Pay Attention To Me.”
Of course, men in droves flock to these pictures and the likes, hearts, +1’s, and comments come pouring in.
“You are so beautiful.” “You are so gorgeous.” “Fantastic.” “Can I message you?” “Can I call you?” “Want to go to dinner?” “I want to take you on a journey.” “Want to travel?”
I imagine it can be heady and quite overwhelming. By simply showing some cleavage, puckering up her lips, and showing a little ass, a woman can literally bring a man to his knees. And we as Men fall for it. We go for it. We press that “like” button. We make those stupid fucking comments. Damn near every time.
We enable these women to be the attention whores that they are. If there was no likes, if there were no followers, if there were no comments of “my god, you are gorgeous,” what reason would women have to be on social media except to maybe show pics of recipes and bitch about how there are No Good Men Left. (*cough facebook cough*)
That’s just one group of women on social media.
Group two would be the so-called Tradcon Feminine Wives. I say so-called, because the majority of them are just like the women that they supposedly detest. Feminists.
Really Tradcon women and feminists are two sides of the same coin. They are both cut from the same cloth. The only difference is in the packaging. The tradcons are “prettier,” for the most part. They may have longer hair, wear their makeup better, dress more feminine (ie dresses versus halter tops) and may generally have a more pleasant demeanor, but they are for the most part, one and the same.
It’s really easy to tell when you know what to look for.
Does the so-called “traditional feminine” woman tell you as a man, how to be a man? She’s no better than a feminist. She is a feminist as far as I’m concerned. Just sneakier.
Does she give “dating advice” to men? She’s a feminist.
Does she try to redefine masculinity? (Is her definition of masculinity the “true” and “proper” definition?) “A Real Man would…. A Real Man does….”
Notice that whatever definition of masculinity she gives, it’s always in her favor. It benefits her.
Feminists do the exact same thing. The only difference really is in their shaming tactics. Maybe not even that. Both get their beta orbiters. Both get their White Knights. Both are preaching the same message:
“Yours (as a man) is to serve. Yours (as a man) is to serve Me.
“If you only do as I say, if you just “man up,” maybe, just maybe, I’ll give you the pussy.”
“If only you do as I wish, then the world (my world, not yours) will be so much better.”
“If you would only just get with the program, then life would be better.”
And if you don’t?
Enter the shame tactics.
“You’re not a Real Man.”
“Wow, you are so bitter.”
“Who hurt you?”
Just like their feminist counterparts.
If you are lucky enough, maybe you won’t have to go through that nonsense. Maybe she will just “block” you. Or unfriend you.
You can avoid all of that though. Don’t follow them to begin with. Block them first if need be. Mute their conversations. It’s usually the same old shit anyways.
When I first got on Twitter, and facebook for that matter, I had a lot of women on my feeds. Lots of complaining, lots of selfies, lots of fishing for compliments, lots of telling men how to be men, lots of dating advice to men, and of course, lots of bullshit drama.
So I started unfollowing and unfriending. I stopped “liking” their posts. I stopped commenting.
Life got a lot calmer and easier. My feeds became more interesting instead of boring and a drag.
I actually started learning things.
Now my social media feeds are educational. I actually get something of value from them.
There’s a lot of talking in the ‘Sphere about “Saving the West.” I honestly don’t know if that is even possible at this point in time. But there is something we as Men can do.
Stop enabling women. Stop “liking” and commenting on their inane posts. Stop showing them support for their sub par selfies. Ignore them like you do when the ads come on television. Ignore them like the promoted ads you get on your social media platform.
Mute them. Unfollow them. Unfriend them. Block them.
If we don’t give them the attention they crave, maybe it will help slow the decline. Maybe it will encourage the woman to change her behavior. Maybe not.
Treat that pretty face for what it is. Another pretty face. They are a dime a dozen.
Make your social media platforms something educational and something of interest. Not just another way to kill time. Not just another way to release a gallon of jizz.